If you've ever competed head-to-head for the championship of something, you know the elation and despair that comes with winning and losing. I've done it about 50 times in PBA tournaments and each of my 29 wins and 20-some losses caused those emotions, and it's hard to put into words how powerful they are. There is nothing better than winning. And even with the despair losing brings, the next best thing is finishing second — if you enjoy the full-on rush of adrenaline and emotion...